李玫瑾推荐的美国育儿书籍（育儿类书籍推荐）

今天推荐的这本书我建议家里有留守儿童的父母，还有夫妻双方都工作很忙的家长一定要看。因为李玫瑾老师的这本书我读完之后的总结就是青春期前，尤其是6岁之前的养育真的很重要。因为李老师是研究犯罪心理的，她接触的罪犯多了，就发现一个人之所以犯罪，一定和他早年的经历有关。这可能有的人会说，那我养孩子是要把他当成潜在的罪犯来防范性的养育吗，用李老师在前言里面自己写的话来说，如若这般推理，受欢迎的养生说，不就是把所有人都想像为潜在的病患吗。

这本书一部分内容其实是教会我们成年人如何去做好自己的角色的，因为孩子出问题，关键在家长里面给出了大量的案例。去阐述了孩子比如自杀啊，犯罪啊，都和父母忙或者留守儿童现象有关。那我们到底如何去做，如何更好的养育孩子。这本书给出了特别多的案例，特别通俗易懂。你看完之后一定会有所启发。这里面我有一个点我特别印象深刻，因为在樊登读书也听到过一样的观点，以前中国家庭的结构是母慈父严，因为过去妈妈都不工作，不抛头露面，现代家庭的结构因该是母严慈父，爸爸唱白脸，好说话，但妈妈要一定要有原则。就是温柔而坚定。这词在樊登讲书里也听到过很多回。整体来说我觉得父母可以买来读一读。当然网上也有不少李老师的演讲视频，你们要是读不进去书听他的完整的讲座也不错。

Today I would like to recommend "Psychological Support", a book by Professor Li, and I hope the parents of the “left-behind children” will read it carefully as it examines the importance of pre-adolescent upbringing.

Professor Li is an expert in criminal psychology and had access to many criminals for her research. She found that often early childhood experience was linked to why someone might commit a crime.

The book illustrates, in many cases, the relationship between a committing crimes and busy parents and explains the importance of good parenting - a child that has acted improperly may be the result of poor parenting. The book uses a large number of cases to show the relationship between committing crimes and busy parents.

Then how do we raise a child well? This book will surely help and inspire you since it uses a number of cases in support of its points.

An opinion from the author really impressed me. In “old” China, the mother was gentle, and the father was strict. Further, mothers didn’t work and didn’t socialize. Now, however, mom should be the “bad cop”, dad should be nicer and be the “good cop”. Moms should be firm and stick to principles, but with love.

This book is worth reading, and, after reading it, you should feel obliged to make time to accompany your children.