婚姻和恋爱是两回事（爱和婚姻实际不是一回事）

爱和婚姻实际不是一回事，并不是所有的爱情都要结婚的，也不是所有婚姻都有爱情。Love and marriage are not the same thing. Not all love needs to be married, and not all marriages have love.

愿你始终相信爱情，不受世事桎锢，找到一个不是“将就”的人，拥有一场叫“因为爱情”的婚姻。

May you always believe in love, be free from the shackles of the world, find a person who is not "make do" and have a marriage called "because of love".

放手其实代表的是一个人的自信程度。越能早放手的人越自信，越在那里拖拖拉拉不肯放手的人，越是不自信的人。因为他要把自己的价值放在对方对自己的认可上，而不是自己对自己的认可上。因此，一个越清晰地知道自己的人，就越能对爱情收放自如。

Letting go actually represents a person's confidence. The sooner you let go, the more confident you are. The more you procrastinate, the less confident you are. Because he wants to put his own value on the recognition of the other party, not on his own recognition. Therefore, the more clearly a person knows himself, the more he can freely accept and release love.

爱上不该爱的人却仍旧控制不住的爱了，爱情里没有对错。

Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love but still can't control it. There is no right or wrong in love.

如果可以回到过去，宁愿和你擦肩而过。即便没有后来的感动和浪漫，至少也不会有那么多牵挂和心伤。或许爱情就是这样，遗憾才让人不那么轻易遗忘。

If I could go back to the past, I would rather pass you by. Even if there is no later moving and romantic, at least there will not be so much worry and heartache. Perhaps love is like this, regret is not so easy to forget.

我们都是在爱情里受伤的人，能在万丈红尘相遇，也只是缘分让我们互相借了一程。缘分没有落地生根，随风散落尘埃，记忆是爱过的痕迹，沧桑是年轮留下的吻痕。谁也改变不了已定的结局，谁也决定不了爱情的走向，就像我们阻止不了四季的轮回。唯一能做的是在漫长的时光里，与你一样慢慢老去。

We are all injured in love. It's only because of fate that we can meet each other in the world of mortals. Fate has not taken root, the dust is scattered with the wind, the memory is the trace of love, and the vicissitudes are the kiss marks left by the rings. No one can change the settled outcome, and no one can determine the direction of love, just as we can not prevent the reincarnation of the four seasons. The only thing I can do is to grow old like you in a long time.

当风不再追云，当冰不再化水，当火不再炽热，当石不再坚硬，当世上没有爱情，我才能停止爱你。

When the wind is no longer chasing clouds, when the ice is no longer melting water, when the fire is no longer hot, when the stone is no longer hard, when there is no love in the world, I can stop loving you.

亲情，友情，爱情。留得住就留，留不住就放手，何必为难了别人，勉强了自己。

Family, friendship, love. Stay if you can, and let go if you can't. why bother others and force yourself.

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