高情商属于什么短语（什么是高情商Whatis）

作家冯骥才讲过一个故事，有一回，一位朋友带着儿子去他所住的宾馆看望他，两人谈话间，那个调皮的孩子爬上了冯骥才的床，站在上面又蹦又跳，如果直接呵斥“熊孩子”下来，会让朋友脸上挂不住，于是，冯骥才开玩笑说：请你的儿子回到地球上来吧。”朋友立刻会意：“好，我和他商量商量。”

真正的聪明人，不是无视人过，而是会在指出他人问题的同时，不动声色地保全对方的体面，生活中，能给他人搭一个顺势而下的台阶，是一种高级的情商。

The writer Feng Jicai once told a story. Once, a friend took his son to the hotel where he stayed to visit him. During the conversation, the naughty child climbed onto Feng Jicai's bed and jumped on it. If he directly scolded the "bear child" down, it would make his friend's face hang. Therefore, Feng Jicai joked: please return to the earth. " The friend immediately understood, "OK, I'll discuss with him."

A really smart person is not ignoring others' mistakes, but quietly preserving the dignity of others while pointing out their problems. In life, it is a kind of high EQ to build a step for others to follow the trend.